In October I wrote an article about the death of our
dog Jasmine. She had been with us for almost
fourteen years, and had become an
integral part of the family. Her death left
an emotional hole in our home---one that
we knew we would fill sooner or later.
That day came on Palm Sunday when we
adopted a dog from the San Diego
Animal Shelter as a birthday present for
my son Fletcher. She is a one-year-old,
tan colored Australian Cattle Dog/ Shepherd mix, full of
energy and love. The birthday boy had the honor of
naming her Lucy.
One of Lucy’s obvious needs was to undergo some
obedience training. Although fairly well behaved around
the house, she was almost uncontrollable outside. So,
four weeks ago I began bringing her to the course that
Dennis Van Sickle, a parishioner here at St. Dunstan’s,
offers periodically in our church parking lot. The classes
are excellent! I can now take Lucy out for long walks in
the neighborhood without my arms being pulled out of
their sockets (except when she spots a cat). However,
the class greatly surprised me because I thought that its purpose was to train the dogs. No, its real purpose was to train the owners of the dogs---to teach us how
to give consistent, clear commands to our pets so as
not to confuse them. The result is that not only is
Lucy a more well behaved dog, but I am now a well-trained
owner of a dog.
I thought of this experience when I came across
an old entry in my personal journal from William
Temple, famous Archbishop of Canterbury (1942-44):
“The Church must be very clear in its public pronouncements,
so she can be very pastoral in her application.”
Perhaps we have so much confusion and
anxiety right now in The Episcopal Church and the
worldwide Anglican Communion because our Church
leaders are not at all clear in their public pronouncements.
Just as I had to learn how to be consistent
and clear in my commands to Lucy, so our leaders
must themselves be very clear in their public pronouncements
so that they can provide the godly pastoral
direction we want and need.
Seeing Red
Written by Fr. Tom Phillips, Interim Rector
Tuesday, 06 May 2008
SEEING RED AND OTHER ITEMS OF BUSINESS
God invented time so that everything
doesn’t have to happen all at once. But when
Easter falls as early as it did this year, it
seems like this adage is being abrogated. To
wit…Pentecost is really early this year, and it
almost caught up with us. Everything is happening
really quickly this year.
What does that mean?
May 11 is fixed in the secular calendar
as Mother’s Day. Pentecost does not usually fall on May 11.
But it does this year: Mother’s Day and Pentecost Sunday fall
on the same Sunday.
So, which is going to trump which? Well, in typical
Anglican fashion, we are going to muddle through and celebrate
Mother’s Day on Pentecost Sunday. This makes sense
to me: my mom was the first person to ever talk to me about
the Holy Spirit - seems to me that the Spirit uses moms a lot to
communicate His presence to us slow learners.
We’re going to do something for Moms - and I’m not
telling, and we’re going to celebrate Pentecost.
THEREFORE - you are strongly encouraged to wear
Red or something Red, so that we can all SEE RED on
Pentecost Sunday.
This is a good thing. Red is the color of fire and blood -
the fire of His love and the blood shed for our redemption. It
is because of the coming of the Holy Spirit that we know these
things (John 14:26). Therefore, we wear red to remind us of
the gift and the coming of the Holy Spirit.
You could purchase red flowers for your mom.
In other matters, please remember that Bishop Mathes is coming
to visit at the end of this month. If you are thinking about
re-affirming your faith by re-affirming your baptismal vows,
please see me. The Bishop’s visitation is May 25.
Finally, I also would like to remind you that
Wednesday, May 7 is the beginning of the new session of
Centerpoint. The subject is THE BLESSING OF HOLY
RELATIONSHIPS. The course will be team taught by Father
David and me and others who at this time are remaining
anonymous. The four sessions are divided into these categories:
WEEK ONE: (May 7): The Church’s historic teaching;
TWO 9 (MAY 14)- Who wants to change and Why? THREE
(May 21)- How do we decide? WEEK FOUR (May 28) - What
does this mean for St. Dunstan's?
Centerpoint begins at 5:30 with Evening Prayer in the
chapel and supper at 5:45 in the parish hall. The Teaching
Sessions begin at 6:30 and run for an hour. You are cordially
invited and strongly encouraged to put these classes on your
calendar.
Fr. Tom
The Year of Living Biblically
Written by Fr. Tom Phillips, Interim Rector
Monday, 03 December 2007
Blessed God, who hast caused all holy Scriptures to be written for our learning;
Grant that we may in such wise hear them, read, mark, learn and inwardly digest
them, that by patience and comfort of thy holy Word, we may embrace and ever
hold fast, the blessed hope of everlasting life, which thou hast given us in our
Savior, Jesus Christ.
--The Second Sunday of Advent, 1928 Prayerbook
Everybody knows that Anglicans in general and Episcopalians in
particular have more Bible read to them than any other Christian denomination.
This is because the Prayerbook emphasizes a reading
from the Old Testament, the New Testament, the Psalms and the
Gospels every Sunday. We also have a daily lectionary for reading
through the Bible in Two years. Maybe not everybody knows this, but
if you don’t, you must be new. Or maybe you forgot. But its true. It's
one of the things that attracted me to the Episcopal Church.
About four years ago, at the urging of several people, I challenged the congregation
to a year of Bible reading. “Read through the Bible in one year” I exhorted. I could
do this with integrity because I have read it through…more than a couple of times. But
of course, you say, a minister or a priest should do this. Yes, we should. But I first read
it through in high school, a long time before I ever even thought of becoming a clergyman,
so it's not just for the clergy. And, inasmuch as the collect above is meant for all
people, all people should read Holy Scripture.
Most people would agree that reading through the Bible is a good thing - especially
when you take seriously that the three major monotheistic global faiths are all focused
on a book of holy writ. All three have this notion that not only is there a God, but
also that He is not silent. "God has spoken to his people, alleluia.”
Howsoever, as one pundit observed, it’s a misnomer to say that monotheists are
"people of the book." It's more accurate to say that they are people who wish they had
read their book…or would like to read the book, or think it’s a good idea to read the
book if we can ever get around to it, or who read it once and felt they got the gist of it
(like the outlaw in the movie 3:10 TO YUMA, which didn’t stop him from becoming an
outlaw).
But now comes a book by a New York City writer entitled, The Year of Living Biblically: One Man's Humble Quest to Follow the Bible as Literally as Possible by A.J. Jacobs. Here is a person who took the task of reading the Bible very seriously--by not just reading it, but doing it.
In doing so it seems that he gained his soul and, also, never loses his sense of humor.
Its very funny in places. The beard he grows, to make his point, is truly one of biblical
proportions. Actually, just reading the endorsements at the front of the book is almost
worth the price. He comes from New York City, and calls himself a "secular Jew." He
admits that he is Jewish in the sense that the Olive Garden is Italian. It's that sort of
humor, and it keeps you on your toes, even when you’re sitting.
And I recommend it…it should be on your list of books to read now, and would
be great as a Christmas gift. Here is a man who took seriously the collect for the
Second Sunday of Advent. You probably won’t agree with all of the author’s conclusions,
but it will certainly get you reflecting on what it means to be "a person of the
book."
Father Tom
Vocare
Written by Fr. David
Sunday, 02 December 2007
WHAT IS GOD’S CALL FOR YOU?
What is God calling you to do
with your life? Could it be ordained
ministry in the church? Or
a dedicated lay person serving
the Lord in some career? What
about marriage? Or does God
want you to remain single for the
sake of ministry to others?
These questions, and many others
like them, are part of the Vocare weekend that
young adults from our Episcopal Diocese and the
local Lutheran churches put on twice a year. Since
I served as a spiritual advisor on the last one,
November 9 to 11 at St. Andrew’s Episcopal
Church in La Mesa, I’d like to report on that weekend
to you.
What is Vocare? It is a weekend for college
age and young adults to grow in relationship with
God and one another. The name comes from the
Latin verb to call, and the focus of the time is to
seek God’s direction for life in occupation, church,
and special relationships. The weekend includes
spirited worship, individual prayer, thoughtful talks,
group discussions, and unforgettable experiences
of God’s love. Vocare has a similar shape to
Cursillo, except adapted for young adults in their
late teens and twenties. Because the participants
are young (except the spiritual advisors), they
sleep on the floor in our host church and go without
showers!
Who leads Vocare? Although an Episcopal
priest and a Lutheran pastor are advisors on the weekend, it is planned and led by young adults
who have attended Vocare in the past. This last
weekend had seven candidates (first-timers) and
twelve staff (previous attenders) on it. St.
Dunstan’s supplied much of the leadership: Jason
Waller was the rector, Amy Weaver was the head
steward, Brian Hughes was the head musician,
and Jayson Nicholson was the head cook. In addition,
Mandy Weaver, Brian Pepin, Alex Tuttle,
and Theresa Cannizzaro gave excellent talks on
various aspects of Christian belief and life. John
and Kem Deehr captivated the group with their
guest talk on marriage, illustrated by their little boy
Eli.
Why is Vocare important? College students
and young adults are the most unchurched segment
of the American population. Yet this is also
the time when people make important decisions
that affect the rest of their lives. Vocare provides
an opportunity for our church to impact these lives,
and build leadership for the church in the next few
decades. And this does happen on the weekends!
Recently, I talked with a retired administrator from
UCSD. He used two words to describe college
students today: anxious and apathetic. While that
may be true for many students and young adults,
it is certainly not the case for those who are part
of our St. Dunstan’s family. If Vocare is any indication,
we have a talented, committed group of
young leaders in this church who love the Lord
Jesus Christ and are excited about ministry to others
in his name.
Fr. David Montzingo
God's Psychology II
Written by Fr. Tom Phillips, Interim Rector
Wednesday, 17 October 2007
God's Psychology II:
The Law of Seeking and Receiving
“The Americans will do the right thing …eventually. After they have
tried everything else.”
--Winston Churchill
This is the second part of a series called God’s
Psychology. In these little studies, based upon the lectionary
readings for Propers 18 and 19 in the PB
Lectionary we are stating two powerful psychological tools
that God uses in moving us towards spiritual maturity.
In the first part, I reflected on the observation that
we easily take even valuable things for granted…until we
lose them. This is the Law of Regret, and the theme song
is Joni Mitchel’s “We don’t know what we’ve got till it's
gone.” The bumper sticker for this was seen in Midland,
Texas in the late 80’s, reflecting on the economic depression there
brought about by the collapse of the oil industry: "Dear God, let it happen
again. This time we promise not to flush it all away!”
The second part is the Law of Seeking and Receiving. What this
law says is that God withholds the really important stuff until we feel the
need and want it badly. God waits until a deep need is discerned and
emptiness experienced before we will receive his provision.
I guess it doesn’t take a nuclear physicist to know this truism.
Consider these examples: 1. Food: one doesn’t really want food unless
one is hungry. On the other hand, never go food shopping when you are.
2. Air. All you have to do to really want air is to hold your breath for 30
seconds. 3. Water. Water never tastes so good until you’re thirsty.
Before that, water is boring, but when you’re thirsty, there is nothing better.
Extrapolating, you will see that God sometimes withholds what he
has to give until we really seek it. This would include things like love, joy,
peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, godliness and self-control…
that sort of thing.
God won’t apply the ointment until we feel the itch: God doesn’t
give everything all at once. He loves his children, but he doesn’t spoil
them. He does not cast pearls before swine. He withholds what is precious
until we can receive it. And we won’t receive it until we really are
seeking it. Consider Adam and Eve. When did God give Eve to Adam?
It was only after Adam knew he was lonely and only after he knew that
there was nothing in the created order that would satisfy this need.
Giving names to everything indicates that when Adam could not find a
suitable partner it wasn’t for lack of acquaintance with the alternatives.
He knew the field, and he knew that what he was looking for wasn’t
there. It was only then when he really knew the dimensions of the problem
that God presented to him the antidote to his loneliness.
Other examples abound. A son was not born to Abraham until
he had given up all human hope of having an heir. The Israelites had to
endure 400 years of slavery and 40 years in the wilderness to be prepared
for the Promised Land. The messiah did not come until the Spirit
had been silent for 400 years - from Malachi to Matthew - and the people
were desperately seeking a deliverer.
This principle extends to our time. Many people don’t know their
need for sobriety until they know their enslavement to their addiction.
Many do not seek a healthy lifestyle until illness knocks them to the
ground. Many do not recognize their need for a savior until they have ruined
their lives in pursuit of pleasure.
Jesus does tell us to seek first the Kingdom of God (Matthew
6:33). What he doesn’t say is that most of us won’t do this until we
have exhausted all the alternatives. This does not detract from what
Jesus said about asking, knocking, seeking…it's merely a reflection that
we won’t ask, seek or knock until we’ve run out of options. See the
quote at the head of this article as an illustration.
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